When you don’t have the reason or answers as to why something ended you start questioning yourself. Putting yourself under the microscope. I know I do. I’ve always been my own worst critic.

Was I not pretty enough? Thin enough? Was it because I dyed my hair?

Did I say something or do something wrong? Was I not caring enough? Was I too caring?

Round and round and round, questions swirling like a vortex in my brain.

Maybe you’re like me and you always turn to self blame.

Don’t.

Don’t do that to yourself. Please. There is NOTHING wrong with you. You are great as you are.

Don’t starve yourself because you think you need to be thinner. Don’t dye your hair back because they didn’t like the colour. Don’t stop being kind. Don’t stop being you.

At a time where I feel the most unattractive and unwanted……I still ate cake. And you know what? It was good! It’s just my humble opinion, but chocolate cake for breakfast makes for a pretty good day.

Don’t change. Don’t blame yourself and for Gods sake eat the cake. Life is too damn short.

Much love xxx